Im fed up with this person trying to tell my mum how to parent me and my 2 sisters?

im a 14 year old boy and i have 2 sisters aged 13 and 10 we are all well behaved, good at school and we all have good school attendance roughly 98 percent and we definitely are not spoiled. my parents are not strict that's because they really don't need to be as we are well behaved ect. anyway my best friends step mum is getting to involved into the way my parents are parenting us. our families are close but were not related. she is trying to be our parents in a way as shies always telling us what to do and that. not to say she is a bad person apart from that we get along very well. so one of the things she done today is.....my sister wass feeling sick and as she has a good attendance my mum let her stay off but because my mum texts my friends step mum alot she found out that my sister is staying off and then came round in the morning and told my sister';right if you dont go into school im ringing the headmaster and telling him that your refusing to go to school'; and my sister went in and when i came home from school as soon as she opened the door to let me in she threw up all over the floor so she was sick. and abit later my friends step mum said to me when u stay off school think again because ill do the same to you but the thing is i hardly stay off school and when i do i am gennuinly ill. i may be well behaved and respectfull but my mum know that she could do whatever she wants i really wont care if im ill i aint going to school she can do what she likes.but its not just this its all sorts she says things like you kids cant say **** to me and i honestly felt like saying your not my mum why the **** should i listen to you. i am really getting sick of this what can i do the thing is i dont want to say anything to her because i dont want to mess up my relationship with my friend. any adivceIm fed up with this person trying to tell my mum how to parent me and my 2 sisters?
I wonder why she feels the need to make your family her business. Did your mom ask her advice on something maybe? You should discuss this with your parents. Maybe they are sick of it too and just need to hear your (and your sisters) point of view on the matter.


You should also ask this woman why she feels the need to act as if she is your parent when she is not. Ask her, don't confront her. Maybe this will allow her a moment to reconsider her actions.Im fed up with this person trying to tell my mum how to parent me and my 2 sisters?
Well you dont have to rude or anything but you can tell her that you dont think it is right for her to be telling your family what to do. just tell her what you feel and ask her to stop.
Just let your mum and dad know that you think they are doing a great job on parenting. Say ';Look at what good kids we are!'; I know your friends with my friends step mum, but really she is causing more problems than she is helping.





Could we please just keep her out of our family business? She may have some good pointers but does she have to come over and try and run our family for us? Also let them know that it is going to cause problems between you and your friend also.
If she rings the school simply bring in a note from your parents/ doctor confirming that you were sick. Who cares what she has to say ignore her.
What I don't understand is why is your mother allowing this. Speak to


your mom and insist that she tell this nosy mother to butt out.


Next time nosy tries to step in where she doesn't belong call her bluff.


If she threatens to call your school then let her. When she calls the school they will ask if the caller is your mother. You could also speak


to your principal about this woman and tell him/her what is going on.


Make them aware that this woman is not your mother nor does she


have any parental rights over you.
the first thing you need to do is talk to your mom. tell her how you feel. ask her to quit tellling details about you kids to her. Sometimes people are controlling and have to be put into their place. It is none of her business if you go to school or not. why does your mother put up with sort of behavior? If it ruins the friendship oh well, it wasn't much to begin with then was it. Remind your parents they are your parents and you are really upset by the bossy attitude. If she has children of her own is she paying attention to what they are doing as closely as she is what you and your siblings are doing? she needs to butt out of your parents business. but they need to be the one to tell her.
Talk to your mom. Tell your mom what has been going on.


Personally if I was your mom, I would put that lady in her place. She is crossing the line. And that is ******* wrong of her to scare your lil sis into going to school when she is sick. **** that, why is your mom letting her do this??


That is what you need to find out. I understand that she is a family friend, but there are some lines that should not be crossed. So before you pop off at this lady talk to your mom first. If your mom wont do a damn thing about it then do what you feel you need to do. Yes is best to respect your elders, however in order to get respect they to also need to show respect.


She is not your mother so no you don't have to do a damn thing she says, unless she is watching you all, which you don't need a babysitter your old enough to watch yourself.





That is all I can think of, I hope it helps a lil. And I am sorry to hear you having to put up with this ****. I have been there, many times when I was about your age, but my mom did nothing, so I handled it myself, yeah they did not like that. lol


K well good luck.