ok so i was in a relationship for about a year and a half and well the 1st 3 4 months were good then this person started to change .. becoming controlling i couldnt wear tank tops shorts skirts dresses couldnt hang out with friends go to movies talk to guys (as friends) couldnt have friends on facebook that were guys etc and i gave him a million chances the 1st few months i was ';inlove'; i couldnt see life with out this person and every time he would say we needed a break i would break dwon in tears cause i thought i couldnt live with out him and if he said he couldnt be with me anymore god for bid but then i started to open my eyes a lil and i was just so let down and hurt and cryed out that i wouldnt cry anymore finally i left him!!!!!!!!! and he was creeeping me !!!!!!! BAD my voicemail box was full he would call my mother tell my friends to tell him what was on my wall on face book call me message me i.m me and i couldnt take it well......the whole time i was with this person i liked his best friend ....( because he was the better person knew how to treat a girl with RESPECT tryed not to fight but if he had to would had family morals life morals had a close family) the bf i had DIDNT but i was just sooooooo crazy about him ';love is blind'; well i started talking and hanging out with this friend though the WHOLE relationship my ex would talk about this person and say how he didnt like him and he hated him and this that and the third and now that he fins out im talking to him and kissing him and **** ';its his bestfriend'; well the other night i went to the movies well guess what he made his friend the kid im seeing bring him the whole time i had to listen to his piddy him trying to kiss me and hold me and tell me this and that he was gonna fight his friend then finally i told him to leave!!! i had to give him a kiss cause he said he wasnt leaving with out it well today i went to go hangout with my friends and this kid well my ex shows up saying how he wants to know if his friends here and that if he is hes gonna kill him well his friend was on his way to the house i was at i got all worked up he was screaming at me on the major street we were on how im a hore and i saying that how can i not love him and how can i do this to him and then he cheap shotted the kid i was seeing when he hit the kid he fell into the concrete and when the kid got up he knocked my ex out ........ i got girls telling me im a whore and a bi*** and this that w.e i cant take this any more no body knows what i went through with this kid alot of stuff and now that im happy talking to the other person everyones got to try and destroy it what do i do ? to help deal with this !!!!!!!!!! i need help asap pleaseeHelp me please im going nuts!!!!?
You need help in putting your question together..that's what you need help with...sorry :)Help me please im going nuts!!!!?
If you're happy ignore what other people are saying, because you won't change their minds once they are made up. Just realize you had a shitty experience and this guy will hopefully treat you better.
Tell your friends the ex is a controlling liar and a jealous stalker. If they don't believe you, then they're not your friends anyway so make new friends. Keep seeing the new guy and hope for the best with him.
Do not contact the ex in any way and try not to go to places that you know he hangs out. He just wants attention. Don't give it to him. Don't text him back or post to facebook. Nothing!!! After a while, he'll get tired of it and move on to another girl he can push around. Good luck!! : /
It was very difficult to read your answer, but I believe I got the gist.
If you're an adult, I'd get a restraining order on your ex.
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